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2019年07月21日 14:59:19 | 作者:京东报 | 来源:新华社
Recently I was chatting with a thoughtful young woman about love. She asked: #39;What is a soulmate? Do you get just one?#39;最近,我与一个挺有想法的女孩聊起了爱情。她问我:“什么是灵魂伴侣?你会找到一个吗?”You become soulmates在时间流逝中成为灵魂伴侣I do not believe that the universe prepares one perfect person who is your destiny, whom you need to go out to find, after which your lives will be forever happy.我认为宇宙不会为你准备好一个是你真命天子的完美之人,你需要走出去寻找,之后你的生活将永远幸福下去。I believe the world contains multiple people with whom you could fall in love. You choose one (of course, he needs to choose you too). You and he decide to build a life together. Together, you go through life#39;s ups and downs.我相信世上有几个你可能会爱上的人。你选择了其中一个(当然他也需要选择你),你和他决定共同开创生活,一同经历人生的起起伏伏。Then over time, your bond becomes symbiotic, like yin and yang. Over time, you become soulmates.随着时间的流逝,你们将变得和谐共生,就像阴和阳。你们是在时间流逝中成为灵魂伴侣的。What about destiny?如何看待缘分?Some of my ers protest at the whole idea of choosing or headhunting! - a mate. They think it#39;s unromantic. On my Weibo they ask: But what about yuanfen (destiny)?有些读者对上篇专栏中“挑选甚至是猎寻一个伴侣”的观点提出了异议,她们认为这个观点太不浪漫了。有读者在微上问我:“如何看待缘分呢?”For those of us who have fallen in, and out, of love, more than once, we know from experience that falling in love is easy. But those early tidal waves of emotion are not enough to sustain a lifetime. This can be really confusing, because no other experience is quite as exhilarating as falling in love.对我们这些已经陷入或走出爱河不止一次的人来说,经验告诉我们,陷入爱河很容易,但最初的爱终不能永远澎湃。这的确让人迷惑──因为没有其他经历能像陷入爱河一般让人迷醉。Marriage is nothing like dating婚姻与约会大不相同Some couples are so busy gazing into each other#39;s eyes that they don#39;t realize it#39;s more important that as they face the future, they#39;re looking out in the same direction.有些恋人总在深情对望,却没有意识到,面对未来,更重要的是两个人的眼睛要看着同一个方向。Here#39;s a typical modern marriage scenario: Date someone you happen to know who happens to like you. After a period of time, marry him.Then make a lot of compromises and work really hard to try to make it work. When it doesn#39;t work, get divorced or drift apart living separate lives.典型的现代婚姻是这样的:与某个你恰巧知道他正好也喜欢你的人约会,约会一段时间之后就和他结婚了,接下来做出很多妥协、非常努力地维系婚姻,当这些都行不通时便离婚或彼此疏远分居而过。What was different about the mountain lovers Xu Chaoqing and Liu Guojiang?那么,“爱情天梯”的主人公徐朝清和刘国江有什么不同之处?They knew HOW to love他们知道如何去爱It#39;s easy to fall in love. Even the term #39;fall in love#39; makes it seem like an accident. #39;Oops! Fell in love again!#39;Teenagers can fall in love with passion and abandon. But stay in love for a lifetime? That#39;s a different matter.陷入爱河很容易,“陷入爱河”(Fall in love)这个词句本身也使它显得就像是一次意外。“哎呀!又陷入爱河了!” 十几岁的孩子也会爱得忘我,爱得抛下一切。但是永浴爱河呢?这又是另外一码事了。Love is a skill. In fact, I#39;ve come to believe that learning to truly connect with another human being is life#39;s hardest but most important skill. It requires learning respect, empathy and kindness, for both oneself and others.爱是一种技能。实际上,我慢慢相信学会与另一个人真正地融合在一起是人生当中最艰难也是最重要的技能。它需要你学会尊重、移情(empathy)和善良,对自己和对他人都是如此。And having to live beside and cooperate every single day with another human being is the ultimate test of one#39;s emotional skills. Xu and Liu passed that test. Without nannies or outside childcare, they survived on the land and successfully raised seven children together. That took a huge amount of cooperation.每一天都必须与另一个人共同生活和合作是对一个人情感技能的终极考验。徐朝清和刘国江老人通过了这个考验。在没有保姆和外界帮助照看孩子的情况下,他们在那片土地上活了下来,而且一同成功养大了七个孩子。They wanted the same things out of life他们对生活有同样的期望If at any point, either Xu or Liu had decided to opt for a life with electricity, hot water, great restaurants, a busy social life, and a career in the big city, then we now would not have 6,000 steps to ponder on.在某一时候,如果徐朝清或刘国江决定选择去过大城市里的生活,那里有电、热水、高档餐厅、忙碌的社交和自己的事业,那6000级引起我们深思的“爱情天梯”现在都不会存在。But even after their children went off into the world, they both were devoted to their beautiful, rustic life. And that was crucial to their ability to stay together over half a century.然而,即使在他们的孩子离开他们进入社会之后,他们二人也专心过着他们美好的乡村生活,这对他们能半个多世纪相濡以沫至关重要。Human beings are diverse in our values, and that diversity is what makes society interesting.人们的价值观各不相同,而正是这种多样性让社会变得丰富多。But a soulmate shares the same basic values as you. He wants the same things out of life that you do. You love and cherish his friends and family. He loves and cherishes yours.灵魂伴侣应该与你拥有相同的基本价值观,他对生活的期望与你对生活的期望相同。你爱并珍惜他的朋友和家人,他也如此。They were true partners他们是真正的伴侣We now revel in the romance of the mountain lovers, but their daily lives were not all about candle-lit dinners with violins playing in the background. They planted their own vegetables, caught their own fish, ground their own flour, fended off wild beasts, lived by the light of one kerosene lamp, and got soaked when it rained. With a family of nine.当我们沉醉于“爱情天梯”的浪漫故事中时,要意识到,他们的日常生活并不是有小提琴伴奏的烛光晚餐。他们要自己种菜、、磨面粉、驱赶野兽、只靠一盏煤油灯照明,每当下雨时还浑身淋透。而且,这还是一个九口之家。Marriage is nothing like dating. Marriage is more like a mundane small business in which you and he are co-partners and co-employees for life. For your little company to succeed, you must believe in each other, and trust in each other#39;s good judgment. You must agree on who does what. You must agree on the direction of your company and the values by which it will run.婚姻与约会大不相同。婚姻更像一个世俗的小企业,你和你的丈夫既是联合雇主又是联合雇员。为了让你们的小企业获得成功,你们必须信任彼此,相信对方拥有良好的判断力;你们必须确定哪些事情要完成以及由谁来完成;你们必须在企业的发展方向和经营理念上达成共识。Those values will be especially tested if you choose to produce offspring. Because children learn by example, and they#39;ll start off their lives with the emotional skills and values that you model.如果你们选择繁衍后代的话,这些理念会受到特别的考验。因为孩子们会模仿你们,他们将会用你们展现出的情感技能和理念开始他们的生活。All this talk of small businesses may make marriage sound boring, but when you get it right, it can be really really nice, and something worth fighting for. And that#39;s why the story of the mountain-top soulmates makes all of our hearts skip a beat.关于小企业的说法或许会使婚姻听上去很枯燥,不过如果你经营得当,它会非常非常棒,是值得我们去争取的东西。这也是为什么“爱情天梯”灵魂伴侣的故事让所有人的心灵为之一颤的原因吧。 /201211/209638

PiscesPisces is not at their happiest in the rational universe of words and thoughts. They feel, dream and follow their hunches, often sounding vague and camouflaging their real opinions because they don#39;t like arguments. They must first be asked to describe an image, paint a picture or write a poemthen perhaps the value of their message will come across双鱼座双鱼座不善于表达自己的思想和观点,对自己的梦想和未来也比较迷茫 /201209/201736

First up, one of the most important areas for pretty much everyone: people skills. I hope you can get a bit of wisdom and inspiration out of these es and from the people who have walked before us.首先,对我们每个人来说都很重要的就是人际关系。我希望,你能够从以下这些名人名言中撷取到一些智慧和感悟,毕竟这些名人已经走在了我们前面,为我们做出了榜样。1. Aesop: No act of kindness, however small, is ever wasted.伊索:勿以善小而不为。2. Alexander Solshenitsen:The less you speak, the more you will hear.亚历山大-索尔仁尼琴(俄罗斯文学家,1970年诺贝尔文学家得主):说得越少,听到得越多。3. Andrew Carnegie: As I grow older, I pay less attention to what men say. I just watch what they do.安德鲁-卡耐基(美国钢铁大王,杰出慈善家):我活得年岁越大,就越少注意别人是怎么说的。我只看他们是怎么做的。4. Aristotle: Friendship is a single soul dwelling in two bodies.亚里士多德:友谊就是一个灵魂寄居在两具身体里。5. Doris M. Smith: Arguing with a fool proves there are two.桃瑞丝-史密斯(作家):与傻瓜争吵只能说明你也是个傻瓜。6. Madonna: A lot of people are afraid to say what they want. That#39;s why they don#39;t get what they want.麦当娜:很多人不敢说出他们想要什么,所以他们得不到他们想要的东西。7. Og Mandino: Beginning today, treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend them all the care, kindness and understanding you can muster. Your life will never be the same again.奥格-曼狄诺(作家、演讲家,著有《世界上最伟大的推销员》一书):从今天开始,对待每个人就好像他们在今天午夜之前就将离开人世。把你所有的关爱、善良和理解都赋予他们。你的生活从此将会不一样。8. Ralph Nichols: The most basic of all human needs is the need to understand and be understood.拉尔夫-尼科尔斯:人类最基本的需要就是理解和被理解。9. Russell Ewing: A boss creates fear, a leader confidence. A boss fixes blame, a leader corrects mistakes. A boss knows all, a leader asks questions. A boss makes work drudgery, a leader makes it interesting. A boss is interested in himself or herself, a leader is interested in the group.罗素-尤因:老板制造恐惧,领袖带来信心。老板指责他人,领袖纠正错误。老板无所不知,领袖知人善任。老板使工作枯燥,领袖使工作有趣。老板关注员工,领袖关注团队。10.Wilfred Peterson:Be gentle with yourself, learn to love yourself, to forgive yourself, for only as we have the right attitude toward ourselves can we have the right attitude toward others.威尔弗雷德-皮特森:善待自己,爱惜自己,原谅自己,只有当我们能正确地对待自己时,我们才能正确地对待他人。 /201112/164011

A new report says that the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge are so focused on being parents that they#39;ve aly picked out names. You#39;ll love what they#39;ve decided on!最新报道:剑桥公爵和公爵夫人正在努力进行“造人”计划,他们甚至已经连未来孩子的名字都已经取好了。你一定会非常喜欢他们所挑选的名字的。Now that Queen Elizabeth#39;s jubilee is over, the royal couple can focus on becoming parents! A new report says Prince William and Kate Middleton are so excited about being a mummy and daddy they#39;ve aly decided on a baby name if they have a girl!现在英国王室举行的女王伊丽莎白二世登基60周年庆祝活动已经结束,这对王室夫妇正努力进行“造人”计划。有报道称威廉王子和凯特王妃对于即将当上妈妈和爸爸十分兴奋,他们甚至已经决定好了未来女宝宝的名字。;If it#39;s a girl her middle names will be Elizabeth after Wills#39; grandmother and Diana after his mother,; said a source to UK publication Now.“如果是个女孩的话,那么她的中间名将用威廉祖母或是他的母亲的名字命名,为Elizabeth或是Diana,。”英国出版社称。The report also says that Queen Elizabeth has been pressuring the Will, 29, and Kate, 30, to have an heir.甚至有报道称伊丽莎白女王已经向29岁的威廉和30岁的凯特施压,希望他们尽快有他们的子嗣。;The Queen#39;s told Kate to make starting a family a priority,” the source continued.;she#39;s also told William not to let Royal duties get in the way of a family and his happiness.;该报道还称:女王告诉凯特要以建立一个自己的小家庭为重,她还告诉威廉不要让王室的职责妨碍了家庭的幸福。Naming their baby girl after Princess Diana — what a lovely tribute! What are your thoughts, HollyMoms?以黛安娜王妃的名字命名他们未来的孩子是对母亲多么可爱的赞颂啊!你们认为呢? /201206/187073

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